I did withdraw from this community partly because I wasn't happy about the way I saw a lot of people speaking to one another. I will say that often I feel people are being a bit cold-shouldered, but at the same time it's not always easy to convey yourself properly over text alone. What sounds normal to you can be read as hostile by someone else. My advice on that front is read what you've written before you send it. More importantly, read what you're responding to properly. Often I've seen people be accused of being very unsupportive or discouraging. What is usually the case is that someone has asked for something without bothering to do any work or research into the process for themselves. This happens most often (from memory) in the requests forum. They'll ask for something either ludicrous, or easy. When it's the former, it isn't done, or they're met with "What's your contribution going to be?" which is a fair point to make. When it's the latter, it's: "This is really easy, you know we have tutorials on that?" This is not an unsupportive response, this is the opposite. This is a member of the community, likely a proficient modder who knows what they're talking about, encouraging you to learn how to make things for yourself. If you get stuck along the way, this is when we're likely to start helping. "Help those who help themselves!" tends to be the attitude, which I whole-heartedly agree with. Biggest problem is usually the way something is asked for to begin with.